Sometimes
the problems are not seemingly big but it leaves a bad taste in the
mouth…certain restlessness seeps in…and you start becoming generally paranoid.
I am
going through one such phase. Few weeks back some associates called me and
informed about an International Journalist who is trying to find out about
Prajwala. They felt rather uncomfortable with the questions and felt compelled
to inform me. One of them was somebody whom I had a lot of differing opinion.
That was the start.
A
few days later a senior officer called me and informed me that a foreign journalist
was asking questions which were quite intrusive. Immediately after that we
received a call from a senior officer in the Department of Women & Child
Welfare requesting that a foreign journalist was interested to visit our
shelter home. As per our organizational media policy (which was evolved in the
last decade or so) we do not allow any journalists inside our shelter, so we
point blank refused.
As
an organization we have allowed only those willing girls/survivors who have
been released from the shelter as per court orders to speak to the media. Here
again the choice is completely with the girl to speak or not to speak. Many of
our survivors who lead the community based awareness program are quite
articulate and have spoken in front of the media.
My
antennae was up, and I was wondering who is this person & why is he
snooping about our organization and me but has not made any efforts to meet me.
I called up the officials and got the name of the person. And then I realized
that I know this person.
Many
months back when I was in Armenia nominated for a Humanitarian Award, I had met
this person. Even then my conversation with this person was uncomfortable, as I
kept feeling that I was being cross-examined and there was a general bias
against our work and me. This journalist was apparently writing a piece on
‘Re-trafficking in South Asia” or atleast that was what he was claiming on
record (he had written a mail to me). I did express my discomfort to the
organizers…as this was the first time I was facing any media person who was
questioning me like this and definitely I was not expecting something like this
when I was being applauded by international recognition.
So I
wrote a simple mail telling him that I know he is in Hyderabad. He responded
immediately that he was here for three weeks and he was very busy with his
interviews but would like to meet me and also visit our shelter. So I responded
that we cannot permit the shelter visit and as I was traveling extensively I
also cannot meet him.
After
that he has met several people, his questions were related to February attack
in our shelter, our integrity and credibility and also about an article that
appeared in Newyork Times. But how is
all this connected to ‘Re-trafficking in South Asia’ I will know when I read
the proposed article. The nut & bolt of the matter was none of people whom
he met felt comfortable.
Finally
last week this person called me up. The call that lasted for 45 minutes left a
deep bitter taste in my mouth. Apart from questioning me about the February
attack which his questions insinuated that it never happened or it was wrongly
reported, to questioning me about our media policy and stating that I am not
very transparent.
So I
told him, while my shelters do not provide development tourism opportunity and
are not open for any random visitor, the agencies I am accountable to, including
my donors, investigating officers and judicial officers have had opportunities
to visit.
In
fact license to run a shelter is issued only after the Department of Women
& Child does a detailed scrutiny. And Prajwala is the first licensed
shelter in Hyderabad. He wanted a copy of the Scrutiny Report which I said is
with the Department. He told me that the department denied doing any such
report…I said ‘you should find out from them why they said something like that’.
To that immediately he retorted ‘why do you think she lied about this report’.
His
questions about our rehabilitation program was on lines that we make girls work
to generate revenue for the organization. He also asked me questions on how we
call somebody a trafficker.
By
the end of the call my head was aching…and then he said something to the effect
I hope you will respond if I have any further queries. So I asked him, how is
he seeking my cooperation for an article that was obviously against us and
whether he will show us a draft? To that he replied that he has been given a
‘grant’ to do this piece and the grantee which is an American Organization does
not permit him to share the draft. Very probably the article will appear in
‘The Guardian’,‘Foreign Policy’ and some other papers.
Very
obviously(from all the questions asked to me and others) the article is aiming
to discredit Prajwala’s rehabilitation model and also maybe show me in a bad
light. What can I say, but just wonder what will somebody gain by discrediting
us?
During
this process I also came to know that a similar effort was made two years back by
somebody who teaches International Studies at California State University. She
was commissioned to do a research on our rehabilitation model. While this lady
did not make any effort to meet me, she met another organization that advocates
for legalization of sex work and wrote a one-sided piece which was published in
the Economic and Political Weekly titled ‘Humanitarian Trafficking’ –Violence
of Rescue & (Mis) Calculation of Rehabilitation’. The article does not mention us but out of
context quotes me from my blogs. The attacks from traffickers who were posing
as ‘victims’ in our shelter was portrayed in the article as ‘riots’ by inmates
who were protesting against bad conditions in the home. I can only smile sadly!
Who
gains from discrediting us? Years of struggle to find the right answers and
strategies to evolve a holistic rehabilitation model has not been easy with
challenges from within and outside.
Financially
sustaining these efforts without even a fund-raising team has been a herculean
uphill task…We are not perfect…and we are constantly trying to evolve the right
answers. Our strategies are based on the legal framework within which we are
operating…we are also striving very hard to bring in better legal framework.
While
discrediting is easy…the consequence of the same is far reaching. While there
are dime to dozen organizations claiming to work on anti-trafficking…and
several more who are sensitizing…the number of people working on setting up
‘safe homes’ that will assist in holistic rehabilitation is becoming fewer
maybe closer to extinct and such articles do not encourage more genuine
organizations to take up this kind of work. Most of the organizations that take
government funds under ‘Ujjwala’ Scheme to set up homes do not have a single
trafficked person in their home.
Demoralizing
events/stories…can have its own consequences…
But
from our end none of this is going to deter us from continuing our mission…we
will continue to strive to find better strategies to improve our model…in all
our failures…we will slowly but steadily build our success….a world free of sex
slavery…a world where survivors will find their rightful place.
Mam, you and your organization has reached the very far destination which is hard to do in many ways. You have done things that no one else has dared to do it yet. There is no place for criticizers. Let the criticizers do their cheap work and let your good work & hard work keep shining bright. Best wishes for successful organization build by great people like you.
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